Blooming Rainy Days

It’s August, and I can’t believe we are having such a rubbish summer weather wise. It’s been non stop rain for almost two weeks now, making it very hard to occupy the kids as they are off school until September. We’ve pretty much killed the play doh we have used it that many times, we can do all puzzles with our eyes closed and as for cakes…. We’ve made that many cakes that I almost fell off the scales in shock at slimming club when they said I’d lost last week! I’ve lost count of the amount of times that both of them have said “Mummy, stop the rain please so we can play outside”. Yesterday the rain stopped for most of the day and everyone went to the park and pretty much stayed there for hours making the most of the weather. We were lucky that a park opened just 5 minutes walk from the house so when the weather is good, we can head there and have fun and if the weather changes we can be home pretty fast. Eliza loves sitting at the top of the slide and looking over to the forest, people watching or admiring the birds flying in the sky. She can often be found sat there stimming away and just loving being outdoors. We also have plenty of things in the house to keep us occupied thankfully. Every year between June and July I stock up on things for the kids to do during the school holidays – lots of arts and crafts especially painting trinket boxes, decorating face masks and making silly hats etc, tie dye t-shirts to create, planting flower seeds, card making things, bead threading activities and other things. It gets us through the summer, especially on those rainy days.

It’s August, and I can’t believe Eliza completed a whole year at her new School in July. Where did that year go? She is so happy there and thriving. Her school report was amazing and it was lovely to watch her in sports day in the relay race. We were once told by a pediatrician that Eliza would never speak, read, write….. In true Eliza style, she is proving them wrong all the time. She loves reading, really enjoys her books and her speech is improving all the time. Her writing is something she has always struggled with. Fine motor skills are not easy for Eliza but she never gives up trying (although a fair bit of anxiety led verbal protests often happen before she picks up a pen). Friends that have been to see us recently have commented on how tall she is getting, how different she is each time they see her etc. In the last few months Eliza has started enjoying pop music and loves a good sing along in the car. She has also taken a keen interest in playing chess on the kindle after a friend let her play chess on his phone a while back. It’s wonderful to see her personality shining through and her willingness to show us what she likes and enjoys these days. She is growing up so fast.

It’s August, and I can’t believe that in just a few weeks Noah starts nursery! He is so excited and when his uniform arrived he just had to try it on. Well, he looks so grown up and very pleased with himself. This year he has really changed and he has the most sensitive, caring and loving personality (oh and very cheeky of course). Considering what he went through last year with operations, hospital stays and endless medications, he is just doing great. He has asked about nursery for so long he just can’t wait to go. Recently he had a settling session there and he cried because he didn’t want to come home, he wanted to stay and play! My little boy is going to nursery. He is ready, I’m not sure I am!

Well, summer might be a wet and cold one, but the kids are doing just great and whether I like it or not, they are both growing up. They are so different in personality, but so close despite their differences. They play and fight like siblings do. I am so very proud of them both.

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This blog was written for ‘Finish the Sentence Friday’ hosted by the wonderful Finding Ninee

 

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Author: Julie Clarke

Mum to 2 children - Eliza diagnosed ASD at age 3. Younger Sibling, Noah. I run a Facebook page called 'Living with Blooming Autism'.

5 thoughts on “Blooming Rainy Days”

  1. I wish you lived close. Tucker and Eliza would have so much fun together and what a relief to read that Noah is doing so well after such scary moments. I can’t believe it’s August! And wow, friend. How far our kids have come (writing and fine motor is still challenging for Tux, too… but that’s okay). School usually begins here in September but starts in a couple weeks this year. I’m not really ready, but I guess I’m ready, you know?

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  2. Oh, I remember those days of keeping the kids busy in August! My daughter is nannying for a family this summer, and she hates when it rains because that means no swimming pool and they are stuck inside. But it sounds like your kiddos are blossoming into amazing little people – enjoy the rest of your summer!

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